Ephesians 4:1-3 ESV
I therefore, a prisoner for the Lord, urge you to walk in a manner worthy of the calling to which you have been called, with all humility and gentleness, with patience, bearing with one another in love, eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace.
God has called us to be His children and redeemed us from the wage of our sins, which is death. From sinners put aside for judgement, we are now God's saints - the people who know Him, hear His Word, citizens of heaven, witness for Him on earth.
Therefore, we must walk in a manner worthy of this calling, which is:
_with all humility and gentleness:
we must not think of ourselves higher or better than others, better not comparing at all, like body parts - eyes, ears, arms, legs - should not compare with each others. Instead, we must consider ourselves lower and be gentle & considerate in everything.
_ with patience, bearing with one another in love:
we must be slow to speak, slow to anger, willing to bear & endure provoking behaviors. Instead of reacting angrily, we must bless our enemies, do good to those hate us, pray for those who persecute us... that we maybe children of God.
_ eager to maintain the unity of the Spirit in the bond of peace:
We should always try to keep the unity & peace, in our church, in our family, and in our community. Few conflicts are irreconcilable or cannot be compromised. Unity and peace are more important than most, especially our pride or our petty opinions.